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Nick Freitas
My wife and I came from broken homes and married at 19/20. We were poor, in a profession with a divorce rate much higher than the national average, which forced us to live away from family, move often, and spend half of our first ten years married apart. We literally had people at our wedding betting on how quickly we’d get divorced, and now, 25 years later, we are happily married, have raised 3 kids, and are still in love. Here’s why.
Chapters:
00:00 - Intro
01:56 - #1 Shared Values
05:22 - #2 Shared Goals & Expectations
10:53 - #3 Shared Interests
13:42 - #4 Effective Communication
20:41 - #5 Attractiveness
@arrowb.8438
2 weeks ago
In terms of women venting to men, one thing I implemented in my relationships that has drastically improved communication is this. If they are upset and start venting, ask whether they want solutions, or companionship. That helps them to also get used to clarifying for me "Hey I need solutions" or "Hey I need to just talk". Super huge boost in my dating life.